The calm alternative to Elsker
Elsker is a wedding planner with tradition guides and a free website. noiva is one connected plan for your whole wedding, with an assistant that answers from it in English and Spanish.

Why couples choose noiva over Elsker
An RSVP updates seating, meal counts and the caterer’s headcount
When a guest replies, the seating, the meal counts and the caterer’s headcount all update together. No spreadsheet to reconcile.
AI assistant that answers from your own wedding plan
Ask who hasn’t replied, what’s due this week or which deposits come next. The assistant answers from the wedding’s own records, with a link to each one.
Invitations, place cards and menus to print, in English or Spanish
Invitations, place cards, menus and table numbers in five styles, filled in with the wedding’s details and ready for the print shop.
noiva and Elsker, side by side
| Feature | noiva | Elsker |
|---|---|---|
| An RSVP updates seating, meal counts and the caterer’s headcount | Included | Not offered |
| AI assistant that answers from your own wedding plan | Paid | Not offered |
| Invitations, place cards and menus to print, in English or Spanish | Included | Not offered |
| Floor plans with drag-and-drop and auto-seat | Included | Not offered |
| Run of show and personal itineraries | Included | Not offered |
| Free wedding website | Included | Included |
Questions
Is noiva a good alternative to Elsker?
Yes. noiva is one connected plan for guests, seating, vendors, budget and the day’s schedule, with an assistant that answers from the wedding’s own plan in English and Spanish. Unlike Elsker, it has: an RSVP updates seating, meal counts and the caterer’s headcount; AI assistant that answers from your own wedding plan; invitations, place cards and menus to print, in English or Spanish.
Can I move my guest list from Elsker to noiva?
Yes. Import your list as a CSV file, from any app or spreadsheet that exports one: noiva matches your columns and flags possible duplicates before anyone lands in your list.
How much does noiva cost?
Free up to 50 guests, then $15 a month or $149 once. You don’t need a card or a password to start. See pricing →

Your wedding, beautifully under control.
Setting up your wedding takes a minute, and you won’t need a card or a password. Add your guests and invite your partner today.